Roy,
You summed up my attitude perfectly. My religious views sound like they are 180 degrees from yours - and that's ok. I too hate blanket statements. I've seen some religious organizations feed the homeless, give them clothing, help them stay drug and alcohol free, help them get the skills we take for granted that are needed for a minimum wage job. And I've seen some condemn women for wearing pants, consider members of other religions damned to hell. Heck I've seen some people do both...
And I've met athiests who are comfortable with my beliefs. And I've met those who won't leave me and "my childish stupidity alone".