It's not Trek? Really? I sure as heck felt like Trek to me. As most of you probably know, I grew up with only TOS. My interest in Star Trek predated The Motion Picture, but I followed the progression of the many series through Enterprise (which I loved).
No, this new movie is not the ultra-utopian TNG; it's not supposed to be. TOS was never meant to be a TNG utopia; TOS characters had real flaws and conflicts, and technology was usually the problem, rather than the solution.
This movie shed that antiseptic veneer of the last 20 years and returned us to a time where we're not perfect, but we can overcome our imperfections to work together to achieve something great. Where a young, conflicted soul can realize he can become more than what he is and then actually do it. Where a young man split between two disparate worlds can begin to reconcile his two conflicting halves and gain wisdom.
Star Trek isn't about utopia. Star Trek is about moving past our differences to work together in a galaxy that is far from utopian.
So, for me, the movie achieved the goal of bringing back the feel of the original Star Trek. I guess you could adapt a Frank Miller quote and say that JJ gave Star Trek its b*lls back.
Davy Jones
"Frightened? My dear, you are looking at a man who has laughed in the face of death, sneered at doom, and chuckled at catastrophe! I was petrified."
-- The Wizard of Oz